Every once in a while my wife crawls to the edge of the bed to blow me while I'm still dressed. We call it "hooker sex". She seems to get quite turned on by playing hooker and using her mouth and tongue to get me hard. I tease her about why her pussy is so wet. Sloppy seconds?
Did he kiss you while you were being fucked by someone else? Did he kiss between BJs position changes? Doggy is hard if guy is hard pounding your wife .. but missionary is easier I can kiss and suck tits .. her riding is the best she can stop and kiss be when ever.. if there is some attraction to the extra then they kiss also .. passionate kissing gets women hot and is very inmate.. I can see why he wouldn't you to kiss but a woman has to be into especially if she's about to take a huge cock ..
Funny you say that because i consider the lack of kissing in porn to be fake .. meaning if my wife is fucking a guy and I can kiss her during I am .. wife is sucking our cocks and we change positions I'm kissing .. and yes if he or I happens to blow a load on her face or mouth I'm still kissing .. you don't bring you wife into a 3way and treat her like she's not good enouhg